Strawberry Letter - He Had Me Fooled

Friday, July 20th


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It's bugger it and hold on to I we got for you here days of stroke area. Object. You had me cool. Here's Stephen surely I have been dating a guy or eight year and he treats me really nice we eliminate we live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour apart. Though I would consider it a long distance relationship. We see each other a few times to weaken either I'm at his health or he's got mine on the weekend I assumed we were in an exclusive admitted relationship. Until recently. The other day he was trying to show me picture on his phone and he mistakenly pulled up the picture. Of another woman. He tried to correctly like pass and picked her. It made in Italy and today. Why. There. Knew I had seen it I didn't make a fuss about the picture I asked him to delete it and he did. Think I wouldn't picture on his phone made me wonder about the nature of our relationship. I ask them if we were blue. If you responds broke my heart. He's stated that before he met me he resonate very serious relationship and had had a bad break. That he was not ready to be in another relationship right now believe that this I have. I have met with them and the entire family and we all get along great. He had me full. I admit that I'm not ready to be married right now but I still want to date with a purpose and not be wasting time on this man. So is the committed relationship titled just the play on words I don't wanna. Adopting this man but I did hear him loud and clear when he that he's not ready what should idea. Well what should you do what do you want I mean really what do you want in this relationship or out of this relationship. He said he don't wanna get married right now he's edgy you won a date with a purpose though that's what you want you got to let him know that. But he's already told you you said you heard him loudly and clearly but he's not ready to be in a committed relationship. So you have to make the decision isn't entirely up to you know you've been dating the man for a whole year and now. Again and what do you want if you don't want it to continue like this you have choices you need to get Al. Of the relationship or you can just change some things in the way you deal with him. If you're thinking at committed relationship and it's not. Maybe you should start seeing other people or you know or something like that. Maybe you should really do which you wanna do but first you need to find out what that it used to you don't wanna be married but you do one day with a purpose. He's not ready to do either of those things that maybe he's just not that guy. Or do you at this time these. I I don't know. I kind of see this a little bit differently. I have a different thing because from the male perspective. I couldn't really count understood what to do say it. Bomb. Their school who live here. I've been Dayton is meant for about a year he's really nice. We live in neighbors to do so you don't consider along this relation here at his house over terms weaken. He's such a house over to them week in Europe man he's a man on the weekend. Here we go out assumed we were in an exclusive. Committed relationship. And too recently the other day. Now let's go over to us through what did they tell you all the time about as soon. And so we usually makes an ass out of you and me. That's what assume means now what is happening is you post so is. Do you do you could've partly got this good. Visual to go. You never brought it up you also own and he looked the other day. He was shot to show me your pitch on its own. Any mistake the board will put them on the moment. Well. What what. And this is his pillow hit and you felt for him and he blinked. He didn't hit rebuilding do. He was true to why. His wife pet that's what he's total bush he can. She's so yeah after she started pitching. Any new you saw didn't make a fuss about it okay mature well. I asked him to delete it and he. Because it that Pritchard could have been a year old we can have a meal you you just don't know. So. It delete depiction. But it makes me wonder about the nature of our relationship so I ask you live we work scoops his response broke Omaha. He stated that before he met me he was in a very issues relationship and had a bad break not the answer so. You didn't you didn't know that. And I a year. You didn't know. That he was in serious relationship. And he had a bad break up a year. This response startled you. I hear. A ball slowly muy exclusive you didn't bring that though. Now he challenged you. Well the first army reservists is relation read a bad break a year before you amendment act that now and daddy out of data that's good. But dale. Really kept on the all new to now. He said he was not ready to be in another relationship right now. Syria's full blow committed relationship there and you try to fix did you go can do. Yeah. Yeah yeah that is why you have a hard to believe. What have you hurt his ever measured yeah Google and months ago maybe you would have made some of the decision. I've met this man is atop them would you lonetree. He had me who. Hit him fool you. If Fallujah that I'll do any lack TU. This man they deceived you cheated who you. You are shown. After you. Asked him would you scrutiny settings in Beverly Schuch you that maybe he didn't fool you stop saying this about him. You trick you'll soon. Op soon well. Chose. Yeah I'd drop me puke puke. Company done that but we imagine it. I'd Steve come on let's get to part two of your response to today's strawberry letters subject he had me fooled. Well. He didn't have you fool. Even Dayton is may have four year future really nice. You have neighbors states. No more now park and some of them alone just from issue to you that his about the jewels on week on doing a week. I assume we were an exclusive group leader relation I told you about assume. You should not absolute. He's trying to show your pitch on the phone he mistakenly pulled a picture of another war. Those. Though Ghana this album and really. Italy and London and. I'll have a problem yeah. I don't know dealings with him. Yeah I don't want them. There. I. Write. Them. So. He tried to quickly swiped listed pitcher but he knew us and I am a proposal by the breach some to deleted and the obviously in a woman's prison if only Kevin made you wonder. So I asked him where we exclusive after a Yeo. Are you hear his response program. Stated that before he met me use reversers relation Panetta beverage breakup I don't just how much does that. Instead he got ready for another religion right now how are just talking about this after you've been did you ask me can you believe it yeah. If you never talked about it. Don't assume that about a minute you have every right to wanna know what you're life is going ladies and I've told you this over and over and over you have the right to ask a man what is going all India. He will tell you. Now hate Koji. And yes I can't believe that what you K believe because you assume something else. So now I have met this man's adopted him we all get along great. Debt. Means he cares about you to do you meet mr. He had before you know he did. You Fallujah so. Because argue you have had this conversation that you had just you can read his conversation. Livan moments ago. In moments ago. You could have easily had the view you notable. I would admit that I am not ready to be married right now so what you trip. You're a written which I have to go to the continued relationship that he's ready. In use at that rate. So achievement through. Blown to an adult but she wants to date with purpose is important that that could put your hobbled yesterday. Ago. When asked do you want to date with a purpose and not just be wasting time homeless man. I date with a purpose. You all have found the show me the war review are ready to be in at. All all all you don't wanna be married PA rated B in an old Sears relationship. What shall insular. And do you believe there's somewhat of Ireland. It and he give us some out of golf is solid and what you need to do is sit down and define and what it is you lean. Cause you win it now you bring in a boy yeah you. US. I don't view it is pretty Alison. You're too old beer girl for your right viewers girl free. This girl and yell for you and you know management. You won't be somebody there girls. So you would they would purpose he did would have purpose begin what world. New date with a purpose you get what you want additional shuttle them. You also own engine war has Atmel are definitely on us they originally even ready Fo yeah. It. But I still won't they would the president nudges viewers so is to commit it in quotation of committed relationship title. Just a play on words. You know I had this conversation with the man tuna. Committed relationship he didn't say he didn't wanna be in a committed relationship his city won't be in a serious relationship. There hasn't if you could be committed to somebody and not be seen. It. Each owning public just well it could be in a committed relationship. And not BC hall to. He used in Jay's like on any aids. And now playing each. I don't want to stop see this man. I do hear him loud and clear where he says he's not ready but so you re not somebody. It and is that. Ready you're not ready. Why don't job make it work define the relationship by about what it is. And see if it will ever leak anything which it could possibly do but the guess what since you heard about it clear he may not be ready force is leadership on little. Palo. And every place them. Delete the pitchers don't mean she'd go. Well yeah Donald calls the Niger. That I have been that is now. Somebody listen to me and I just constant that you got to meet. Don't mean she go. Some time been the ma. I am the premier Marie and I. And being leveled at him there and some. Shaky you know each day. A lot of room to coop. Yeah added I just told you are doing little to once in a way. As we go through her. And I do. Don't just exactly I did and now. And. Gold backed toward Johnson pummeled on each massage some time. Even when opted she didn't dazzle movie. Play in real mind I'm. Some kind of get a. Yeah food. Sure at this dog and nothing. Like what are your some limit yeah. All what we pay. Split the whole day break out of the quad meet. And now we out of time. Yeah right we got. And these are coming together. Of that now that we've got to go you Eleanor insert amateurs thought I had my girls earlier today strawberry letter you're listening. Pete morning Jim.